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The Love Letter Technique is recommended for expressing negative feelings to your partner, as a way of finding greater love and forgiveness.

The different ways men and women hide feelings are discussed along with the importance of sharing feelings. In chapter 11 you'll learn ways to communicate with each other during difficult times. Women, however, will learn to redirect their energies into ways that score big with men by giving men what they want. Instead of focusing on one big gift men are reminded that the little expressions of love are just as important 101 ways to score points with women are listed. Men will learn that for Venusians every gift of love scores equally with every other gift, regardless of size. The anatomy of an argument will be explored along with many practical suggestions for establishing supportive communication.Ĭhapter 10 will show how men and women keep score differently. Women will learn how they unknowingly send messages of disapproval instead of disagreement, thus igniting a man's defenses. Men will learn that by acting as if they are always right they may invalidate a woman's feelings. In chapter 9 we will explore how to avoid painful arguments. You will discover the six most common ways you may unknowingly be turning off your partner. Women primarily need a kind of love that is caring, understanding, and respectful. Men primarily need a kind of love that is trusting, accepting, and appreciative. In chapter 8 you'll discover how men and women give the kind of love they need and not what the opposite sex needs. Men also will learn to recognize when they are needed the most and how to be skillfully supportive at those times without having to make sacrifices. Men will learn how correctly to interpret these sometimes sudden shifts of feeling.

We will explore in chapter 7 how a woman's loving attitudes rise and fall rhythmically in a wave motion. Women also will learn the best times for having intimate conversations with a man. Women will learn how to support this pulling-away process so he will spring back to her like a rubber band.

A man gets close but then inevitably needs to pull away. In chapter 6 you will discover how men and women have different needs for intimacy.